Doing our thing!

At last update we'd made an offer on a house, which had been accepted.  We'd been congratulated by a few people but from our past experience (ie. one failed house purchase) we knew there were more stages to pass before celebrating.

We weren't expecting to have confirmation as early as we did.  The building and pest report was all good (with the inspector commenting that this was a much better house than our previous choice!) - and then we received full finance approval that same afternoon!  

Lots of mortgage documents were read and signed online but the last couple were done in person with our broker.  Things felt more real at that point and we celebrated afterwards!

I've previously spoken of my brooches.  I try to wear something in theme for various outings/occasions, so pondered an appropriate brooch for mortgage document signing.  I finally decided on a butterfly, known as a symbol of change and transformation, comfort, hope, and positivity - which was in theme with my butterfly-wing floaty jacket. (Later in the day I changed for dog-walking and wore my elephant brooch cos he's a happy chappy with a balloon - and reminds me that a great weight has lifted).

Even though no boxes were packed this week, we worked in the garage and downstairs - culling rubbish, cleaning and sorting.  All good missions to achieve.  I spent some time calculating various dates and possible timelines (supervised by Erin's knitted chookies).  

Settlement is a month away so we can pack with a lot more enthusiasm and purpose, now we have a home to go to.  Hooray for us! 

Week 6 tally.  Boxes packed:  0.  Total boxes packed:  37.

Keep moving forward ...

Another week has dashed past.  We've done so much behind the scenes - and are chuffed with progress.

There was very little packing achieved but lots of effort was made to secure a home for us to move to - which has a higher priority!

Nick and I went house-hunting last Saturday.  He had a few hours sleep following night-shift before we attended an open house viewing.

We aren't looking for a dream house, just one we can make work for us.  Sort-of like a long-term rental without the hassle of renting! 

Saturday's house met our criteria and we made an offer while taking a break at a local cafe.  A figure was calculated one number at a time, using a bit of numerology.  We're good value, eh?!

There have been many admin tasks this week, doing everything necessary for our purchase to proceed.  Success isn't a sure thing but we are remaining positive.

In between house-buying and normal household tasks, Erin and I attended a fashion upcycling workshop (which prompted more thought about mindful choices) - and most importantly, celebrated Nick's birthday!  

The birthday-ing was done in two stages, with a trip to the conveyancer on the actual day to verify our identities and sign other paperwork.

We had dinner at a Chinese restaurant that night and were each given a fortune cookie.  Erin's was "Keep moving forward".  Nick got "Happiness will always follow you" - and mine was "You deserve a rest, watch a movie" which is what we did at the end of the day!  There was a second round of celebration last night with a lovely cheese platter and splendid, home-baked birthday cake. 

We actually had a fair bit to celebrate at the end of the week.  A long-running saga finally resolved, which will streamline our finance application (along with other paperwork that was a little tricky to organise).  Nick received his tax refund - and his first gig payment!  Our deposit was returned (for the Week 3 terminated contract).  It's all happening!

Week 5 tally.  Boxes packed:  1.  Total boxes packed:  37.

Crowning achievements?!

Are we finished?  Nah, not even close. I had a long visit to the dentist this week, for crown restoration work.  

(I wore my Cookie Monster brooch - you know, cookies are a sometimes food - and took my headphones, so I could listen to an audio book and focus on that, rather than the drilling).

Nick and I still managed to go house-hunting afterwards.  House-hunting is a major focus of life.  Online.  Street viewing.  Open houses.  In-person inspections.

We've broadened the search to include rentals.  There wasn't much point looking at them too far ahead. At this stage though, four weeks out from our exit date, taking on extra stress and expense may be necessary.  Plenty of Plan B options are being considered, costed etc.

We try not to be affected by media coverage of the current "housing crisis" but one house was leased even before the inspection times.  We only saw another from the road before applying - unsuccesfully.

Of course there's good stuff happening and in these trickier times, it's even more important to focus on and enjoy the positives. Nick and I attended a Leonard Cohen show last weekend (the night after Nick's first, official gig).  We had a quick dinner in a beautiful Italian restaurant beforehand.  That venue is on our list for a longer visit, when we have time for full enjoyment.  Praps a birthday dinner.

At some stage amid all last week's busy-ness we made an impromptu visit to West Bremer Radio, introduced ourselves to Rachel Vickary (host of The Drive Home) and chatted of Nik Hamby's music.  After a house inspection this week, we again called in - and Nick did an interview, then and there!  He'd received an email that same morning, confirming his return gig at Platform 5! 

We do all the usual stuff around the other happenings.  Working.  Walking.  Washing.  Shopping.  Cheffing.  Chiro.  Medical reviews.  Sourcing hard-to-get medication.  Culling.  Packing.  

Week 4 tally.  Boxes packed:  3.  Total boxes packed:  36.  Total tape rolls used:  2.

What a week!

What a rollercoaster ride our third week was!  So much happened.  It was very hard to keep up - even for us!  

By way of background, four days after receiving our Notice to Leave we met with a mortgage broker, who submitted our application on Friday (a week after Notice).

Yes, on top of all those Week 1 box gathering and packing missions we also rounded up detailed figures and necessary paperwork to present our case to a broker (and lender).

By Monday of Week 2 we had finance pre-approval and could start seriously looking at houses for sale.  Many properties were viewed online, quite a few were inspected from the street and we attended a number of in-person open houses also.

It was an eye-opening week.  So many house already under offer or contracted within the first day of being listed.  So many that looked quite fine in photos but weren't fine in real life!  By the end of the week we were contracted on an older home in a lovely location.  Exciting times.  We toasted our success and good fortune over that weekend (as well as taking some time out to collect Nick's "new" amp).

There was a flurry of activity in Week 3.  Erin packed one box.  I didn't pack any.  Of course there were all the usual work and household missions - drat!  Nick and I both had several medical appointments. As well as attending those, we organised building and pest reports - discussed construction issues and ways forward, fine-tuned finance paperwork (which highlighted another problem, one we'd thought resolved after a long saga).  

Over lunch on Friday we realised that purchase wasn't going to proceed.  The day had been quite busy and the afternoon prelude to Nick's first gig was even more full-on, sending emails right up to our departure from home.

How did the gig go?  We had a fun night, made even better cos friends surprised us by driving down specially to see Nick play.  Nick/Nik enjoyed being on stage, only forgot a few words a couple of times - and has been invited back. How good is that?!  Even more impressive when you know some of what was going on behind the scenes.

Week 3 tally.   Boxes packed:  1.  Total boxes packed:  33.

Whimzee-cal packing?!

Two quick weeks since receiving our Notice to Leave - and far too much going on!

Nick and Erin went back to the retail dumpster last weekend and sourced another 64 great boxes, including one for a uekele, which might just fit one of Nick's uekeles!  How obscure is that?!

Two extra-large boxes were brought home, not for packing so much as containing our packing boxes - which are now nicely organised in the shed, for easy access.

Bandit wanted to be part of the action as a quality control inspector. Yep, some of the collection came from a pet supply store - and they have now been taste-tested! 

Although we've been in this house for over five years, we do have a lot of moving experience.  

During our 18-plus years together we've had eight homes - as well as an 18-month stint based in our vintage caravan.  

For the first 10 years of Vaughan's life we moved seven times, including an interstate relocation from New South Wales to Victoria in late 2012.  We did another interstate relocation in 2017, which brought us from Victoria to Queensland.  Our current home is the longest we've stayed at one address together - and we're a bit chuffed with that!  On reviewing our childhoods though, it seems around seven years was the longest either of us spent at one address. 

As a child, my family lived in a 25-foot van for a period also, on the road and stationary for various periods (sometimes with additional living space in an annexe).

I've lived in rental properties since August 1997, when I separated from my first husband.  I choose the timing of that initial move and the one following but from 2005 onwards all moving timelines have been set by others.  I've always found the early weeks to be difficult, knowing that leaving is necessary but not having any idea of where we'd be moving to.  Of course, given the current housing crisis, I was even more concerned than usual.

I bought myself two cyclamen plants last weekend, to add some cheer to our bathroom during these tricky times.  They are holding in well at the moment though it seems caring for them could be an extra challenge.  Hah!  They've survived a week so far!

House-hunting has been our main focus this week, which has taken up a lot of time and energy.  We've been diligent about daily walking for physical and mental benefit, eating good food and maintaining evenings for relaxation - to help all family members through our current stressful period.  Erin has continued voluntering and is doing some craft work as a distraction.  Vaughan is on a term break, so socialising online and with local friends.

Nick and I both have health appointments, so we've been attending those in between various other missions.  Our days have been very busy and an impromptu trip to Toowoomba yesterday afternoon was a wonderful, welcome break.  We bought a speaker for Nick's first proper gig (this coming Friday evening) and enjoyed a wander through Queens Park gardens while there.  I reckon we deserved some time out!

Week 2 tally.  Boxes sourced:  64.  Boxes packed:  5.  Boxes donated:  0.  Tape rolls used:  0.

Total boxes sourced:  120.  Total boxes packed:  32.